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Gate 10

The gate of behavior. It's about loving yourself unconditionally.

Authenticity

Natural being. You are you, and that is enough.

Self-Denial

Bending over backwards for others and rejecting your own nature.

Game Changer

Love yourself first. Everything else follows.

  • Selfishness as self-care
  • Saying no

The 6 Lines

  • Line 1: ModestyTrue self-love needs no stage. You know your place and fill it.
  • Line 2: The HermitYou love yourself most when you are alone. The company of others can distract you from yourself.
  • Line 3: The MartyrYou constantly question your behavior. Self-love grows for you from mistakes and corrections.
  • Line 4: The OpportunistYou look for opportunities to be yourself. Your network accepts you as you are.
  • Line 5: The HereticYou challenge the norms of behavior. Authenticity means for you to be different.
  • Line 6: The Role ModelYou are simply yourself, and that inspires others. Your being is your strongest argument.

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